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i just had a conversation with a friend, she had a fight with her husband, he slapped her in public, do you think she should divorce him? #Unladylike

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Hi, tell your friend to slap him back. Sometimes a small step is enough. Let's teach him ' To give respect and take respect ". She s married to him, it's a long journey but one needs to face many small ups & downs, but self respect is very important. If he s not taught that while growing up by his Mother, we need to teach him. Things will definitely work up. Divorce is a very huge decision, if she has kids, it's going to effect them the most. My regards to her to raise up her Husband, a woman can do anything if she decides not to give up. Best Wishes 💐

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Hiii i have always heard and believed weak man hit and abuses women no matter that man is your father, husband or brother.. yeh I have gone through it I'm 24 and since my childhood my father has abused me and beaten me oftenly more than my brothers why because I oppose on his wrong things and show he is right he has abused me and beaten me lekin ab adat hogai haii takleef hoti pr mujhe chup karwa diya jata haiii taki baat aagey naa badey i think this is the reason now I'm not ready to believe on any man in this world you all might be thinking why I'm writing this here it's not sense but sometimes senseless things are good for claiming you.
I am so glad you found this app to be a safe space, and you were able to share your heart out, the experience you had, no one would ever be able to understand the pain and hurt you must have gone through, and still battling with so many difficult memories every day and your past haunting everything you do must have been very difficult, I feel getting a professional help to process this is very important but nothing justifies actions of your father, until and unless you process past trauma you will always feel every man is same so give yourself time to heal, sending you courage❤️
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my husband is a drug addict, he drinks aLot, use to take brown sugar also. due` to this there are a lot of problems. i have a 3 year old child. nowadays we are fighting, he is always drunk. what should I do
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hlw everyone, i have talked to my husband and in laws also. my father in law knows everything but he never interfere between us. last week was very disturbing for me. as i asked divorce from my husband. he was heartbroken and asked for a chance. this time he has consulted a psychiatrist and tdke medicine also. now i am just praying everything be good.
Hi Neha... First of all, he's an absolute loser and you are a brave lady to even think about your options. Most would have left someone like that to get his sh*t together. There are 2 ways in most situations.... 1. He'll forever be an addict if he isn't showing any motive to give up.... 2. He's trying his best to sober down and be the dad he's supposed to be. The choice is yours. You can stick around and wait or find a way and leave. If you want to give him time, please prepare yourself for a plan B. And keep your child informed. Sounds strange? yes!! But most experts in this area emphasize on having clear communication when children are involved. This way they won't grow up confused and will have at least one parent to trust completely. The way you talk to your child is important though. Something like, Dad's made a terrible choice of food and now he's feeling sick. Let's wait till he gets better. In the meantime let's play. So it's not too overwhelming.
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my husband is a drug addict, he drinks aLot, use to take brown sugar also. due` to this there are a lot of problems. i have a 3 year old child. nowadays we are fighting, he is always drunk. what should I do
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Hey its important you stay safe and keep your child safe, you can search for local NGOs and rehabilitation that can assist you with this, there are many women based organisations giving employment to women, try being financial independent while also seeking help with some trusted legal advisor and you staying safe is utmost priority
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Don’t feel bad if someone mis-treats you.
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Absoultly right.....stay away from people who spred negativity around u..who so ever is.
This is so true n powerful messsge which we missed learning in our childhood. People try to get you to their standards always. So always associate with the ones who lift you up. Refrain from the ones who try to put you down to their levels.
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my husband cheated on me with my own sister. now he is asking me to sign a divorce mutually and doesn't wanna give me any dues only promising to child care as my son is disable. we are still under the same roof and he is planning to move out.But every day is a new fight as he is constantly talking shit about me verbally abusing me and my son. it's a lot of verbal violence at home whenever he is at home. I am really worried about my son as he is physically disabled and has autism too plus he is getting seizures due to all the stress. no one's family is getting involved as it was a love marriage. I am really lost and no mental strength left.
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Try to restart your carrier side by side...don't try to hold him as he is already gone.focus on your self and your child future.Leave him with some decent amount and your mental health is most important then only you can take care of your child....be strong and independent
hi Talk to your husband and make him realise how his behaviour is impacting your son. You need to talk to your family. his family and try to get them involved ..it's important because of your son's special condition. Lawyer you must approach, and let him know the situation. Lawyer will be the best person who can advise you on your entitlement and help you get that. You try not to react to what your husband says or does.. If he is arguing fighting you remain quiet.. two reasons, it will help you mentally and second it will help you Son! This may not be easy but possible if you try.. Good luck
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my husband cheated on me with my own sister. now he is asking me to sign a divorce mutually and doesn't wanna give me any dues only promising to child care as my son is disable. we are still under the same roof and he is planning to move out.But every day is a new fight as he is constantly talking shit about me verbally abusing me and my son. it's a lot of verbal violence at home whenever he is at home. I am really worried about my son as he is physically disabled and has autism too plus he is getting seizures due to all the stress. no one's family is getting involved as it was a love marriage. I am really lost and no mental strength left.
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hey there it's really tough situation but not tougher than you. there is nothing hard than you...you are strong enough to solve any problems.... you can take legal action as well
this is truly a very difficult position to be in, firstly to feel cheated and secondly to not get what are you entitled too, also as a mother your concern about your son is valid, I firstly would suggest to keep legal framework on priority, there are many women based ngos and law firms that does help with this, seeking help from a friend who might have knowledge about legal issues will also be beneficial, secondly you should try also sharing how you feel mentally to a trusted friend/or mental health professional and also take care of yourself then only you would be sble to fight legal laities and take care of son, but you are strong women, am sure you will figure this out and get through this but do stand for what you deserve and don’t feel coward by your husband forced actions
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