Vanilla Girl
by Bhavna Thadani on Apr 22, 2023
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Hey Friends, Somewhere in the midst of all the living we do, we tend to get wound up in unwanted thoughts and emotions, which often keep us from achieving our goals and becoming the person we are meant to be. My endeavour as a life coach is to help you pause, reflect and take daily small actionable steps towards your higher purpose in a simplified way. I will share actionable content which ( I hope) will inspire you to take the next step towards becoming a better version of yourself. So if this resonates with you, join the Vanilla Girl tribe😊 With Love Bhavna
@Vanilla Girl Hey. I'm just another lively girl in this world. But I guess life ain't no lively everytime. These days I can't be sad I my own house. Some days there won't be anything to be sad but there's a sudden wave of depression that hit me. I can't be happy all the time. it drains my social energy and I can't deal with it everyday. How do you manage to put on a sweet smile for everyone???And is it that important to be happy everyday ?
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Hey there, life is what it is. Some days will make us happy and some won’t. The idea is to feel your emotions ( happy or sad ) rather than escaping it. Accepting and working through the tough emotions is the fastest way to navigate through them.
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