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I had a one time sex in the bathroom of a club with a guy I had no idea about.We were both drunk and I don’t remember whether we had used contraceptives. How do I find out about it?

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Sexologist_DrKalps

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How many days back have you done this? What is your LMP(last menstrual date)? if your periods are delayed, go for UPT. If come on time, then not to worry about pregnancy. But about STI, you have to watch out for any symptoms if you have now Like vaginal discharge, itching, burning , irritations or sores/rashes or UTI like symptoms. Though you don't have any symptoms, get yourself tested for STD profile. If possible try to connect with that person to know his STI status or sexual history if possible. If not possible then go for STD profile. Though tests comes negative, still repeat after 3 months because some infection like HIV will have 3 months window period. It Will appear in tests after 3 months. And for god's sake, next time don't do this mistake or use condom. Precaution is always better than cure!👍

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intimacycoachsampadafotedar

Eating Disordersanswered 47 days ago

Hey! I can completely understand the panic! Firstly, take a breath. If your periods have been delayed, take a test and check. If not, then check for any signs and symptoms of STIs. Is there any weird vaginal discharge or itching? Do you feel burning sensations? Whatever the case may be, even if you don’t feel all of this, get an STI test done. And do repeat after 3-6 months. Trying to Connect with that guy too!! I understand drunk sex can be super thrilling hahaha but it also has some undesirable consequences! So make sure you have contraception handy!

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AshMegha

New Mothersanswered 47 days ago

check for symptoms and pls wait for your next menstrual course to come now. if it doesn't show up. You can get tested. Don't panic girl ❤️

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Na_Dia

Eating Disordersanswered 46 days ago

Very difficult situation in deed but don't stress. Have patience and look for symptoms. incase of any you can have test

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puja_jauntyyucca

New Mothersanswered 2 days ago

koi bat nahi thoda dhyan rkha kro club me ye sab aam bat hai

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