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I know someone, my relative actually. she started living separately from her husband because they had issues going on. They are now separate from 2 years I guess. The thing is I'm thinking why aren't they getting divorced officially. Why to remain connected legally if they have so many problems. I don't understand this idea of them. I'm completely confused. Why do most women not go for divorce and rather just choose to live separately after a failed marriage? @Nazneen

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There could be many reasons why someone might choose not to get divorced officially even after separating. Some individuals may have religious or cultural beliefs that discourage divorce. Others might be concerned about the financial implications or the impact on their children. Additionally, some couples may still have hope for reconciliation or may simply not want to deal with the legal process of divorce. It's a personal decision that varies for each individual and couple based on their unique circumstances and beliefs. As for why some women choose to live separately after a failed marriage rather than pursue divorce, it can depend on factors such as financial independence, cultural norms, or personal beliefs about marriage and divorce. Every situation is different, and it's important to respect each person's choices and circumstances.

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There could be many reasons. I feel it’s a personal choice. Maybe some people do it out of hope that things may resolve sooner or later. Some folks do it to avoid the tag of a divorce which unfortunately is a taboo in India. Some people may not want to go through the legal process. Can be tons of reasons

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See...People staying connected is not an issue as long as their problems are not affecting their lives ones. They surely would have their own reasons to do so

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I think it's probably because they are scared about what people will think. Especially for the women it's difficult to take a divorce, she gets to hear a lot even if it wasn't her fault.

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