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My cuzn got divorced 3 months back. His wife was emotionally abusive and manipulative. Somehow she isolated him from everybody including family. The internet talks so much about narcissistic men but let me tell you, women too can have narcissistic personality disorder. Now I want to know, How is the life of a divorced man in India?@RC_Mayanka

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answered 30 days ago

I'm sorry to hear about your cousin's difficult experience with his ex-wife. It's important to recognize that emotional abuse and manipulation can happen in any relationship, regardless of gender. Both men and women can exhibit traits of narcissistic personality disorder, and it's crucial to address these patterns of behavior to ensure healthy and respectful relationships. As for the life of a divorced man in India, it can vary based on individual circumstances, cultural norms, and support systems.

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New Mothersanswered 29 days ago

It is true that both men and women can be narcissist, but yes it is talked about most in men. as for life of a divorced man, things might be little tough when he wishes to get married again, as people will find it hard to believe that he was abused. other than that most things should be ok for him.

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It can come as a surprise but not all men are living happily and not all women are in misery. They both have their problems and struggles. It's just about the pov

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I think it would be similar to the life of a divorced women. However a little different. Like he wouldn't be questioned or blamed about it, he would be allow to remarry even if it was his fault in previous marriage

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Hi! hope you are doing well! Divorce irrespective of women or men is tough and painful. Narcissism is not biased to any specific gender, it is can be found in both men and women. As a divorced man in our society it will be a bit difficult to prove himself innocent as others might not easily believe that he was the one who was suffering in the marriage. But he should believe in himself as he knows the truth and in no way take any blame on himself. He should utilise this time to focus on his goals, life and do things that's makes him feel happy.

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