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Whenever I take time for self-care or relaxation, I can't shake off this overwhelming sense of guilt. It's as if I'm letting everyone down by not constantly hustling and being productive. How do I break free from this toxic mindset and allow myself to prioritize my mental well-being guilt-free?

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Seemachaudhary

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To break free from feeling guilty about self-care, remind yourself that taking care of your mental well-being is essential for overall productivity and happiness. set boundaries to prioritize your needs without guilt.

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Psychologist_BhumikaSehra

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Hey there! Hope you're doing well. I understand practicing self care can sometimes bring up feelings of guilt, it is something that we have been conditioned to not do in order to succeed in the hustle culture. However, I want to assure you that it is not selfish and if sometimes things get too heavy for you, it's okay to take time to refresh and recharge yourself. Try to challenge the distorted thoughts that contribute to your guilt and reframe and recognise what is essential for your overall health. You can also start with smaller acts of self care if big changes are overwhelming for you and then you can gradually work towards bigger changes.

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Psychologist_Pinal_Sawansukha

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You are one strong woman who understands the importance of self love. It's the internal critic that keeps telling you that you shouldn't be indulging in self care. Understanding where this internal critic is coming from is important. Trick your internal critic by saying, " self care is okay. I have worked hard to deserve this." Try this and if this doesn't work and constantly makes you anxious, speak to a therapist.

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Hello there, you know when you fly in a plane , you are instructed that in case of emergency first put on your oxygen mask before helping others. Similarly when you are yourself not relaxed, and fulfilled how can you take care of others around you? So self care is not a luxury but a necessity. Hope this helps you with looking at self care from a different perspective.

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معاكي علياء احمد اخصائي نفسي، محتاجين نشوف سبب ال overthinking بشكل سلبي لان ممكن يكون رواسب من صدمات في وقت الطفوله زي المقارنات أكيد نستني منك تكلميني علشان نقدر نعرف اكتر عن الموضوع … في حل سريع تقدري تستخدميه لما يجيلك افكار زي كدا، انك تدربي علي اليقظة الذهنية وهي من مهارات التعامل مع الافكار بس الافضل تكوني مع اخصائي أو معالج علشان المهارات دي لازم تتقنيها وكمان هيقولك علي البرنامج المناسب معاكي
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دكتور انا شخصيه حساسه قوي وبجد بزعل من اي حاجه لدرجه ان حاسه ان الناس بتبعد عني اعمل اي هي دي قله ثقه في النفس ؟
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المكان هنا مساحة آمنة نحكي فيها عن الحاجات اللي بتأثر في نفسيتنا ومسيطرة على تفكيرنا من منظور متخصص وفي نفس الوقت سهل وبسيطmore

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🧠 Mental Health

Your mental health, which is defined as the ability to work and love, is a prioriy as it affects your entire being including your relationships, your career and your physical health. In view of the above, I am here to help you maintain your mental health through a journey of insight, realization and consequently change towards what your real beautiful self and identity. more