Gönül İşleri ❤️

by BaharKalyoncuYücel on Dec 9, 2023

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Burası aşk, evlilik, ilişkiler ve bağlanma modellerini konuşacağımız, dertleşeceğimiz, çözümler üreteceğimiz yer. Tek taraflı bakmanın bizi sonuca götürmediğini bilerek, empatinin, şefkatin, şehvetin, onurlandırmanın olduğu ilişkileri nasıl inşa edebiliriz,işte tam olarak bu soruya cevaplar üreteceğiz. İdeal ilişki yoktur, ideal ilişkinin yaratımı vardır. Yaratımımız kutlu olsun cânım kadın. Hadi gel, beraber yolda gönlümüzü açalım, büyütelim, serpilelim. İlişki tohumlarımız göğe ulaşsın ! 🌴

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BaharKalyoncuYücel asked 131 days ago

Bireyleşmek İster Misiniz ? Bizim gibi ailenin birbirine fazlasıyla kenetlendiği toplumlarda bireyleşmek zaman zaman bencillik, uzaklaşma kopma gibi algılanabiliyor. Halbuki insanın kendini tanıması için kendi dünyasını keşfetmesi, kendine ait kararlar vermesi, kendi seçimlerini yapıp seçimlerinin sorumluluğunu alması gerekir. Hiç yalnız başınıza seyahat ettiniz mi? Kendi başınıza şehir dışına çıktınız mı? Evlenmeden önce kendi evinize çıktınız mı ? Bir evin sorumluluğunu tam anlamıyla aldınız mı? Sadece kendinize ait bir karar aldınız mı? Tüm bunlar, bireyleşmek için önemli adımlardır. Birey olmayan, çift olma konusunda da sıkıntılar yaşayabilir. Aile kültürü elbette önemlidir fakat sizin kültürünüzde neler var? Aileniz ile sizin sabah rutinleriniz, yeme alışkanlığınız, boş vakitlerinizi değerlendirme tarzınız benzer mi? Tüm bunları anlayabilmek için, yalnız kalmalıyız cânım kadınlar. Şu an gittikçe azalsa da, bizim toplumumuzda kadınlar anne baba evinden çıkıp, eşleriyle kurdukları eve giriyorlar . Kendilerini tanıma fırsatı verilmeden yaşıyorlar. Evlat rolünden çıkıp, eş rolüne geçiş yapıyorlar, kendileri olma rolünden azad edilerek… Siz bu konuda neler düşünüyorsunuz? #bireyleşme #kültür #toplum #toplumsalroller #toplumbaskısı #kadınolmak #evlilik #bireyolmak #psikoloji #psikolog

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sevdadiker

New Mothers・answered 130 days ago

Ben de anne baba evinden çıkıp evlendim Bireyselleşme ve kendi kendime vakit geçirmeden yeni yeni keyif aliyorum desem 2024 planlarıma da tek başına seyahati ekledim bol bol

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New Mothers・answered 111 days ago

Oooh süüüper

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