Empowered Boundary Keepers

by Zanzanil Patel on Jun 22, 2023

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Welcome to the Empowered Boundary Keepers community on Coto! We're here to support each other in setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in our lives and relationships. Share your experiences, seek advice, and find resources to empower yourself in creating a balanced and fulfilling life. Join us in fostering respect, empathy, and personal growth. Together, we can cultivate strong boundaries and authentic connections.

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hina asked 61 days ago

Is it really tough as a single woman (separated, divorced, widowed, unmarried) in India? Can you share your experiences, both pleasant or unpleasant? @Zanzanil

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Anonymous

・answered 61 days ago

Yes. It is sad but true that women in india irrespective of whether they are separated, divorced, widow or unmarried suffer a lot. Due to the society they are subject to taunts by people. they are often seen as the culprit even if it was husband's fault in marriage

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5283jubilant_nutria

Surrogacy・answered 59 days ago

I m single divorced mother.... and suffer daily

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Zanzanil

New Mothers・answered 58 days ago

I took a very different approach towards divorce. I knew before hand that I don't have any support. therefore I chose to go through divorce with mutual consent. so all the practical struggles of finding a house and stuff was taken care by my ex and about the emotional part, I was already prepared for. so for me, divorce has been a win win situation.

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Anonymous

・answered 57 days ago

it's depends on men's mind I am also working but my husband is always support me

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Anonymous

・answered 57 days ago

we also have to sacrifice some time and understand each other then everything is going good , but in today's generation every one have a Ego

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Because in India eeryone including women consider woman must be arogant so her marriage didn't work. No one considers as it could be a man's fault. We have to start from ourselves. We should go to the root cause of divorce and should try to know reasons and conditions of both partners. When every woman starts doing it, definitely in future this condition can be changed. Also because of past trauma of failed relationship makes a lady hesitant to move ahead. But she should believe that not every man will be of same quality. So first start believing in yourself and move ahead. Just be conscious now when you are choosing next partner.

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It's not always true. But it's like - their life, their rules. If she loves him deeply and ready to struggle with him in any situation she will become his biggest support. But in past life,if he haven't treated her well, never given any importance to her requirements then how can she consider to be with him forever? Some of the woman can be pretty practical and understand that now he can't bear there expenses. So it's her choice to leave him. Some husband are so erogant ...like रस्सी जल गयी पर बल नहीं गया| They keep treating their partner like slave, then they deserve it. In every relationship, the cause can be different other than just loosing job.

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